My friend. Is that "Stage Presence" comment still haunting you to the bones? Is it making you second guess yourself and wonder if being on stage is really what you want to do? Is it making you wonder if you were "good enough"?

It is a difficulty that may never be solved.
Just have the band master the songs and their instruments and play the gigs with confidence, maybe a few dozen beers to help pass a good time. And the next time somebody approaches you with a comment like that. At least break one of their kneecaps or smash your beer can into their forehead. Turn the table on them and have them hobble away thinking about it instead of you.

Bon Chanse,