I don't see "walking on eggshells" and I don't see "angst"
ghis is such a small group and presumably friends to some degree with a mutual interest
I have never been put off by boxes for sale here..
I might if a full blown dealer was hawking his wares but a player or enthusiast hustling a box.. no big deal and a service to other players.
When someone suggested that there be a For Sale section.. cool but not necessary
When someone suggested a percentage kickback.. cool but not necessary.. not as if the "board" mandated anything... it was just a generous suggestion..
If it is going to be done at all... on your honor
screw rules and paying a fee to list..that is too commercial , moreso than listing a box