I totally apologize to the two people who responded to my original post. Things got really hectic and I ended up moving out of the area and had no computer for a while. I actually am moving back to the area in April 2001 and to answer Amy's question, we are military. I will make a strong effort to respond quickly if anyone should happen to post again and now they have the nifty box at the top to notify me by email when someone responds. I will be without my computer from mid Mar to begining of Apr. I hope your families are well and that you were able to find some like minded people around you. I am starting a parenting support group when I get back to Biloxi, probably in May. Feel free to email me at email@example.com if you are interested in being notified when I get it up and running. It will be focused on promoting the priciples of attachment parenting.