The secret is to stick with it - which I think you've already figured out; the "aha" moments will get more frequent. It just takes time and persistence.
And you're gonna get it. I can tell. You got the fire.
Thanks, Big. You've rekindled my enthusiasm for that tune. The version I like is Joe Falcon around 1963 with his missus on drums.
Yours is about as close as I've heard.